Yes. Take
charge, it’s your life and only you can change it, nobody else, not even your
closest people can help you till you yourself are willing to be happy. “When one decides to be happy, no one on
earth can make them sad, not even uncontrollable situations like life and
death.” If you feel like nobody is listening to you and you have no one to
talk to, you still have one person who is always ready and available to talk to
you and will always understand you no matter how much stupidity you pour in to
the conversation. The only person who can understand you is YOU. Nobody else
can take place of the person that you yourself are. Nobody else can make you so
happy as you can make yourself. Nobody else can take care of you as much as you
can. Whenever you are in a problem, can’t see a solution to anything, and there
is no one who you can look up to for help, just look into the mirror and there
you will find the only person who would always be capable to help you out of
any situation in the world. Once you meet this person you will come to know
that this was the same person who always helped you when you were in trouble,
it was always this person who waited for everyone to help you and then in the
end solved all your problems himself when the deadline approached and nobody
else could do it. This person brought every situation under control when you
thought your mind was not working. When you thought you were all alone, you
actually weren’t, this person was still there with you when everybody left you,
when everybody was gone, one wasn’t.
You must have
heard this “God helps those who help themselves” and must also have seen
instances where people were trying to help someone and he doesn’t take any
action to do good to himself and ultimately all those trying to help him fail
and quit. It is just one step we need to take for ourselves, not for anyone
else but for our own good. For if we are not ready to help the person closest
to our heart, who else will be able to help him? Not even God himself is
willing to do something extraordinarily good for someone who is not trying for
at least something ordinary. It is a very understandable thing that only the
one who is ready to do something about what’s going wrong actually comes out of
the problem in the end. So if there is something going on and on and you do not
like it or you think it is not going good, just become the one who changes the
thing and not the one who stands still and looks at things happening and does
nothing at all, just asks for help and advice and not even dares to follow the
advice. The incompleteness behind every half done work is the sole
responsibility of the indecisiveness that comes directly or indirectly from
lack of confidence on self, which exists only because one fails to believe he
can do anything that nobody else is able to.
One’s self is
their own for life, and the oneness with self is something that can create
wonders in one’s life. Being happy is not that hard, what is hard is to come
out from sadness, and that can only be done if you are happy with yourself. We
always want to make our loved ones happy but just think for a while, is it
possible for someone to make others happy while they are not happy with
themselves? No. How can someone unhappy with himself make others happy? Be
happy with yourself. Don’t try to be happy with life, but with yourself.
Because it is you that can be changed, not what’s happening in your life. Life
will go its own way, whether you like it or not. So this means you are bound to
live life as it comes. So what is the use of crying if crying is life is not
going good? It won’t change whether you cry or smile or live or die. It is
always going to be the same no matter how hard you try. So the ultimate lesson
of life is “Live life, take it as it comes, keep smiling, for the absence of
smile or presence of tears isn’t going to change the way it is.” So if anyway
you must live life as it comes, at least smile and make it easier to bear with
it and make it a party and you never know, when smile sticks to you and life
itself starts smiling with you. And that day you won’t even remember how it all
became so easy for you. It was YOU who changed your life, it was you who made
everything bad and difficult finally work for you, it was you who helped
yourself, it was you who took a step to make things work the way you wanted
them to, it was you who entered the wrong to make it right! It was you who
decided to be happy always, and here you are! Always happy, always smiling,
always helping yourself, always making decisions, no matter if they turn out not so good, at least you
make decisions, take steps, speak your heart…. So it is the best to decide to
be happy, and leave the rest as it is. Things will keep going right and wrong,
life will keep moving on and on, you just need to be calm and keep smiling,
stop complaining, keep deciding, drop the worry, start thinking for yourself,
start planning changes in yourself, be happy always..For it’s your life, you
have to take care of yourself. Nobody else is responsible for anything that
happens to you. And as a dear one once said to me, “People may be the Reason
for your troubles, but it’s only You
who is Responsible for how your life
is, nobody else”.
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