Tuesday, 3 June 2014

Think different, be different. Love yourself

The accusation of being different is the one of the biggest things that bring out the real person in you. The problem with people is that they start making fun of whatever new they see, and the problem with those who do the new is that they fail to ignore the negativity people have show. The loss that both incur because of what they do is that the people laughing at the new miss out on the real special thing that is being created, and the one who's being laughed up on misses out on the fun they can have being different by listening to the stupid comments. But what fun would there be in the world if nobody created something new and bobody laughed on others.

Why do you think despite of all the negativity and differences the world always seems just right? Why do you think everything that is imperfect is still perfect the way it is? It's because everything is meant to have both good and bad sides, every coin is meant to have two sides, every person needs to have both black and white colours. The problem arises when leaving aside black and white, a third colour appears, the grey colour, the mixture of black and white, something that is neither good nor bad, something to which one can neither say yes nor say no. What if everything loses its basic two colours and becomes a mix of both, a colour from which it's impossible to take out one specific answer to your question, and you finally sit down with just a question and a confusion.

Even the world around us has two colours of everything, there are people close to us and far from us, there are seas, there are shores, there are days, there are nights, there are good people, there are bad people, there is sweet and there is sour, there is earth and there is sky, there is water and there is fire, there is god and there is evil, there is right and there is wrong, whatever you think has an opposite side. And as much as i've seen and heard, a mixture of two opposites is always disasterous. And the absence of any one of them is even more disasterous. If there is creation, there is going to be destruction. If things only get created and not destroyed, they will take the form of never ending creations and begin to destry other things, things that are meant to stay longer, things that are not meant to be destroyed.

Whenever someone tells you you're different and asks you why, tell them you're different because they're all the same, and you don't prefer to be something that is common. I mean c'mon, why would I want to look like all the others on my wedding day? the flower girls look the same, the bridesmaids dress all the same, the bride looks different! Why be the bridesmaid? Be the bride. Why be the sheeps and not the shephard?

Why be the same when we can be different and stand out and make an identity of our own? Why listen to those about being odd or wierd from those who do not have the courage to do anything out of the line for good? Why not do what needs to be done, why not do it ourselves than waiting for someone else to do it. Be different and love yourself. For being different and getting afraid of looking different and odd is something anyone can do. The real thing is to be different and show it proudly! Have a happy monday. Ciao!

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